The Disney-first family (kids 3–10): Hilton Tokyo Bay or Sheraton Grande. Budget ¥28,000–¥35,000/night for the Disney Partner benefit, monorail access, and themed experience. Book 3–4 months ahead for peak season. Two days at the parks, one day recovery day at the pool.
The budget-conscious family: MIMARU Tokyo Kinshicho. Kitchen cuts daily food spend by ¥5,000–¥8,000. Sleeps six, so you can bring grandparents or split cost with another family. Still 20 minutes from Disney if you add a park day.
The city-explorer family (older kids): Hotel New Otani Garden Tower for space and facilities, or Asakusa Tobu for neighborhood immersion. Day-trip to Disney from central — Keiyo Line direct from Tokyo Station to Maihama takes 15 minutes.
The one-night transit family: Hotel Villa Fontaine Grand Haneda Airport. Walk off the plane, check in, onsen, sleep. No fussing with trains and luggage after a long flight. Move to your main hotel fresh in the morning.
The 'we want Disney access but not Disney prices' family: Oriental Hotel Tokyo Bay (9.4 — highest score on this list, 8-min shuttle) or Urayasu Brighton (indoor pool, free shuttle, lower rate). Save ¥8,000–¥12,000/night versus Partner Hotels and put it toward park dining.
The nature-and-culture family: Hotel New Otani for the Japanese garden, or Mitsui Garden Prana for the onsen experience. Combine with Ueno Zoo, Sumida Aquarium, and Nikko day trip — Tokyo has more for kids beyond the parks than most visitors realize.
The multi-generational family: MIMARU's largest apartments sleep six and include full kitchen — ideal when grandparents join and you need flexible meal times. Hotel New Otani's garden suites also accommodate extended families with the separate living area.